• Everyone Needs
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    Everyone - people of all ages, genders,
    sexual orientations and socioeconomic
    backgrounds - needs to hear the challenging
    and life-changing message in this
    book, Can I Kiss You?

Can I Kiss You?

is a fun, helpful journey revealing the faults of body language, the joys of talking, the serious impact of wrongful behaviors, how to EXPECT RESPECT from your partners throughout all facets of a relationship, how to help your family and friends, and much more! Best of all, you are going to gain realistic skills you will have fun using in your life and sharing with those you love (both children and adults).

Mike Domitrz

is known for the impact his programs, trainings, and publications have made across the world for parents, teenagers, families, educational institutions, the US military, and the media. You may have seen him as the featured expert on Dateline NBC's "My Kid Would Never Do That."


Mike is one of the leading experts for transforming our sexual culture to one being built on consent and respect – discussing sexual decision-making, asking first, healthy relationships, bystander intervention, and supporting survivors of sexual assault. As the brother of a rape survivor, Mike's mission is personal.

His ability

to share powerful emotional moments (both serious and hilariously funny) while giving readers and audiences realistic “How To” SKILLS to implement in their lives is what separates Mike’s message from other experts and authors. Mike is an author with an unique combination of Provocateur and Advocate who captivates readers throughout his books.
  • From “the look” to “making the move” – we’ve been taught it all wrong.
  • Can I Kiss You? a thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault.
  • Mike Domitrz is one of the leading experts for transforming our sexual culture to one being built on consent and respect. For over two decades, educators, military, families, colleges and individuals of all have sought out Mike and his impactful programs and speaking engagements.
  • This insightful book full of candid advice, real-life scenarios, and interactive exercises is revolutionizing each person’s approach to dating & building respect – all while helping address the reality of sexual assault in today’s culture, including how to intervene to help others.
  • While most people simply “make their move” on a date, Mike Domitrz reveals why asking first makes all the difference.

Can I Kiss You? is a ‘must read’ for parents, students, and educators. Mike Domitrz breaks through the confusion of body language and assumptions to provide every student with clear, specific skill sets for building healthy, respectful, and wonderful relationships.”

Ida Echevarria NYC Board of Education, Retired Director of Testing and Assistant Superintendent

“As a sergeant who supervised the San Diego Police Department Sex Crimes Unit for ten years and the founder of End Violence Against Women International, I am painfully aware of the need for this book and the outreach Michael J. Domitrz has with young people. When I read the book, I immediately thought, “I want my nineteen-year-old daughter, a university freshman, to read this.”

Joanne Archambault, Executive Director, EVAW International

Can I Kiss You? breaks new ground by sensitively examining every aspect of physical intimacy from “The Look” to “The Morning After.” With gentle humor and a deft hand, Mike Domitrz gracefully walks us through the newest issues in this age-old topic. Without condescension or judgment, Mike gives our children the tools they need to grow up sensible, strong, and healthy and with a better appreciation of what makes them—and their partner—comfortable, happy, and content.”

David Altshuler, M.S. and Author of Love the Kid You Get. Get the Kid You Love

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